The way we present our self in the society, people get image of us (not talking about judgement). Our reaction towards any thing is an attitude we have in us. Or in other words our attitude decides our reaction towards anything or situation or circumstances. In this post, I am going to write on attitude.
Attitude is a characteristic which we build in our personality. Our daily small actions and reactions make our attitude. The attitude can be divided into two types: Positive attitude and Negative attitude. Usually if we talk about attitude, then generally people take it as a negative quality ( negative attitude). Instead of seeing the big picture of attitude, we generally see only it as a negative type. Which is neither true nor fair enough at all. From my own personal experiences and from others, attitude plays an important role.
Our attitude is build from the way we perceive the situations. Every coin as two sides ( three according to me), which side of the coin we focus more, our attitude will built like that. If we see the positive side of the coin (in problem situation also), we will have positive attitude and will power to solve it. On the other hand if we see the negative side of the coin, we will get stressed and attract negative vibes in our mind, which will create fear in our heart and it will be difficult to solve the problem in this case. So, the way we perceive the situation, the way our attitude becomes.
Taking an example of a student who was not able to score well and pass in exam due to any xyz reason. Now, if he take this downfall as a positive way: he will not get disappoint (for sure he will be for sort time as its a human nature) for long time, decide to make a plan for study well and target to score good marks in the next exam. On the other hand, he can get nervous, scattered and have low self confidence because he was not able to pass while his fellow students pass the exam. In this specific situation he can target to score the highest marks ( more then the current highest marks scored by a topper in this exam). If he adopt the first behavior it will known as positive attitude while the later one is negative attitude.
Often I heard people saying that this person is having attitude ( negative way) and he/she is not good due to his attitude nature, even when in reality that person is having a positive attitude , it was misjudged as negative one. The main reason is in our mind, the meaning of attitude is negative (I am talking in general, not about any specific person,country,region,etc.).
For sure our mind is the governing authority of our actions. The more and more we feed it with the food of positive vibes, it well induced more positive attitude in us. It will be shown in our action, our behavior in society. Now, for sure there will be some negative vibes,negative attitude as no one is perfect in the world. But we can commit us to be best, if not perfect or try to reach perfection which is similar to tending to infinity (my science and engineering friends will get this sarcasm).
According to my prospective, it's good to have a positive attitude (may be you will have a bit negative also, but try to eradicate it as much as possible). The positive attitude build our good personality by inculcating characteristics like discipline, punctual, dedication, etc.
"Bear an attitude, but positive not negative"- Rahul Yadav
Attitude is a characteristic which we build in our personality. Our daily small actions and reactions make our attitude. The attitude can be divided into two types: Positive attitude and Negative attitude. Usually if we talk about attitude, then generally people take it as a negative quality ( negative attitude). Instead of seeing the big picture of attitude, we generally see only it as a negative type. Which is neither true nor fair enough at all. From my own personal experiences and from others, attitude plays an important role.Our attitude is build from the way we perceive the situations. Every coin as two sides ( three according to me), which side of the coin we focus more, our attitude will built like that. If we see the positive side of the coin (in problem situation also), we will have positive attitude and will power to solve it. On the other hand if we see the negative side of the coin, we will get stressed and attract negative vibes in our mind, which will create fear in our heart and it will be difficult to solve the problem in this case. So, the way we perceive the situation, the way our attitude becomes.
Taking an example of a student who was not able to score well and pass in exam due to any xyz reason. Now, if he take this downfall as a positive way: he will not get disappoint (for sure he will be for sort time as its a human nature) for long time, decide to make a plan for study well and target to score good marks in the next exam. On the other hand, he can get nervous, scattered and have low self confidence because he was not able to pass while his fellow students pass the exam. In this specific situation he can target to score the highest marks ( more then the current highest marks scored by a topper in this exam). If he adopt the first behavior it will known as positive attitude while the later one is negative attitude.
Often I heard people saying that this person is having attitude ( negative way) and he/she is not good due to his attitude nature, even when in reality that person is having a positive attitude , it was misjudged as negative one. The main reason is in our mind, the meaning of attitude is negative (I am talking in general, not about any specific person,country,region,etc.).
For sure our mind is the governing authority of our actions. The more and more we feed it with the food of positive vibes, it well induced more positive attitude in us. It will be shown in our action, our behavior in society. Now, for sure there will be some negative vibes,negative attitude as no one is perfect in the world. But we can commit us to be best, if not perfect or try to reach perfection which is similar to tending to infinity (my science and engineering friends will get this sarcasm).
According to my prospective, it's good to have a positive attitude (may be you will have a bit negative also, but try to eradicate it as much as possible). The positive attitude build our good personality by inculcating characteristics like discipline, punctual, dedication, etc.
"Bear an attitude, but positive not negative"- Rahul Yadav
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